The search for love is quite an adventure for most men. You’ll go on interesting dates with beautiful women. You’ll get to talk to new people, and you seem to be smiling at your phone every night. However, as you grow older without a stable relationship, you might start thinking it’s time to give up on love.
This could be for a number of reasons ranging from heartbreak to difficulty finding a romantic partner. But you really shouldn’t give up on love just yet. Here’s why:
Love has many lessons to teach you
We see how you can misinterpret this, but we really don’t mean this in a bad way. Love can teach you how to be more patient. It can teach you to understand and tolerate someone who doesn’t share your cultural or emotional background. It can let you know when you’re toxic and when you need to be more assertive. You shouldn’t give up on love because love still has a lot of life lessons to put into you.
You can use this period for growth
Instead of taking the drastic step to give up on love, you can use this transitioning period to grow and become better. You can learn how to cook. You can start working towards getting your apartment. You can learn how to communicate your feelings. There’s so much you can do besides giving up on love now.
You can focus on finding true love
It sounds like something from a fairy tale. But, we’re inclined to believe that your true love is somewhere out there, and one day you’ll meet the woman who is a great match for you. Instead of giving up on love, why not just use this time to be patient and wait for her to swing by?
Good things aren’t easy to find
If you’re already thinking about giving up on love, remember that good things are never easy to find. Yes, your exes might’ve cheated on you, and those girls might’ve disappointed you in more ways than one. But, they’re not the standard for love in your life. You can still find that good person. It might take time, but you certainly shouldn’t give up.
You have time to focus on you
Finally, while your last relationship might’ve ended badly, it doesn’t mean everything else will go down the drain. So, instead of giving up on love, you can use this time to focus on yourself and just do the things that make you happy.