By El Crema
Men always make the mistake of thinking that their ladies won’t leave them just because they take the entire ‘sh*ts’ men do for a very long time. Men get used to their ladies bearing all manner of atrocities they commit till it makes the man feel invincible.
But one truth is once a lady becomes tired, there is no going back; her mind becomes made up and she then gets tired of the relationship and an exit becomes the only option for her.
7 signs she’s tired of the relationship
1. SHE NO LONGER GETS AFFECTED BY YOUR ACTS
At this point, she no longer cares about what you do anymore; her feelings become dead to your acts; nothing moves her. Winning her back at this stage is as hard as watching the minutes hand on a clock all day long. Men should never allow their ladies feel this way about them. However, some men still don’t know that at this stage they have lost her; they are so short-sighted.
2. SHE EASILY BECOMES IRRITATED TOWARDS YOU
This is even worse than the previous one; at this stage, she becomes irritated towards everything that you do. They feel better when they are alone than with you. They even feel a huge relief whenever you are out of sight. At this stage, they are just waiting for the perfect moment to leave that relationship; though in their minds, they have left already.
3. SHE EASILY GETS ANGRY
This is the product of sign number two. When you are irritated about someone, you easily get angry. At this stage, everything the man does will provoke her. Trust me when I say, you don’t want to know the insults that she’s pouring on you in her mind. Guys, don’t act surprised when your lady starts getting angry easily. That is an anger that’s been piling for a very long time and it just reached its climax, so she looks for every opportunity to vent the anger on you.
4. SHE DOESN’T DO THINGS SHE NORMALLY DOES
This is only normal when she’s tired of that relationship. She stops doing things she normally does or maybe she gradually reduces the things she does for you. That’s just a huge sign that she’s tired of the relationship; she doesn’t feel any vibe and doesn’t see the need to do stuffs for you anymore.
5. I LOVE YOU BECOMES HARD TO SAY
She no longer finds it easy telling you she loves you; well that’s because she doesn’t. She even feels guilt when she says she loves you, because deep down, she doesn’t. Even the few times she says it, it would be quite obvious that it isn’t genuine. But on a general note, when she’s tired of you, she doesn’t deem it fit to tell you that she loves you.
6. SHE BECOMES ABSENT MINDED
This is also another huge sign that it’s all over to her. She barely listens to you, she doesn’t flow in conversations anymore, her mind is like a wood, she’s there but she isn’t there. She feels emotionally distant from you at this point; your deeds and talks sound so distant to her. So many ladies can testify of having this feeling with a guy they no longer care about.
7. SHE DOESN’T FIND YOU INTERESTING ANYMORE
I guess this is the worst thing that can happen to any man in a relationship; when his lady doesn’t find him interesting anymore. It’s easier to get a lady than regaining your lady when she feels this way about you. She prefers being with other people than with you; she doesn’t have any affection anymore and it becomes obvious.