If you’re here to learn the secret to communicating with your woman, you’re in the right place. As a fellow man, it’s not hard to sympathize with you and say that sometimes, you might not fully understand your woman. Sometimes, you’re thinking in this direction, and she is not seeing things that way. This is not to say that it doesn’t happen with other people as well. However, it’s just more emotionally draining when it’s a romantic partner.
Not to worry, though. In this article, I’ll be relieving you of any stress you might have in that regard. To give you what you’re really here for, let me start by saying that the secret to communicating with your woman is that there is no secret! Sorry if that bursts your bubble, but all women are different, wonderful individuals. As such, there is no single secret to help you talk to them better.
However, there are a few things you can keep in mind if you want to be able to communicate better with your woman.
Listen and let her talk
Someone once said that everyone is narcissistic. We all want to be the centre of attention, and we all want to be heard. I wouldn’t go so far as to say that all women are narcissistic because that’s just untrue. However, I can confidently say that a good chunk of them would rather not be ignored in a conversation. So, when she talks to you, let her talk. Try as much as possible not to interrupt, and this doesn’t mean you should become absentminded. Pay attention, and she’ll love you for it.
Don’t be insensitive by dismissing her feelings
When your woman comes to you and expresses a true concern or a sincere excitement, don’t dismiss it. Admittedly, it might not really concern or interest you. After all, there isn’t a lot you’d want to do with her latest makeup kit. But, it interests her and makes her happy. As such, you should try to share in her happiness as her partner.
Pay attention to her silence
Okay, even I’ll admit that this part is a bit iffy. But, it’s one of the most important parts and cannot go unmentioned. No matter how you choose to look at it, many humans communicate through a combination of verbal and nonverbal cues. The verbal ones are pretty easy. If someone doesn’t like something, they’ll simply tell you. The nonverbal ones, however, are a bit more complicated. While it’s almost impossible to misread an “I don’t like roasted corn”, the story is different for nonverbal communication. Despite its complications, it is still quite important that you find your way around it because your woman will use it more often than not.
Start by gently pushing further when her tone seems a bit off while saying “I’m fine.” Ask her what’s wrong when she uncharacteristically keeps quiet. It might not mean much to you, but these little acts do go a long way.
Our individuality is one of the many things that makes us amazing as humans. Considering that we’re all different, you can’t have one clear cut method that’ll be the secret to communicating with your woman. However, trying these three tips can’t do any harm.