Hello gentlemen! You’re welcome to another special crossover article where you’ll get to hear all the juiciest relationship tips straight from a woman. Today, we will be talking about something pretty funny and that is what women find attractive in men. All the traits I’d be giving you today are things I know myself. But, apart from that, I went further and did some interviews with other women. So, you can bet that I’ve got some wonderful insights for you.
As usual, I’m the female writer for Virtue Digest. So, without further ado, let’s get started on today’s journey.
What attributes do women find attractive in men? Or, better yet, what kind of men are women attracted to? Well, I’ll tell you. But, don’t be surprised when you see that some of them already apply to you, handsome.
Trait No1: A man with leadership skills and a busy life
Don’t get things wrong with the “busy life” part of this trait. Women don’t want a man that is too busy to even have a relationship. But, we are still attracted to a man that is busy establishing himself and doing things that fulfill him.
In addition to a busy life, leadership skills are important because they show that you are powerful enough to pursue and conquer whatever you want. Essentially, leadership equals power and women are attracted to power. Thankfully, you can develop leadership skills. Just don’t go and become a Cersie Lannister on that account.
Trait No2: A man that doesn’t even know that he is hot
This one is a bit of an inside detail for you. Now, just because you want to acquire this trait doesn’t mean you have to constantly talk about how unattractive you are. You can just give off the vibe that it is not always about your looks. At the end of the day, trust me, you’d get your woman tripping.
Trait No3: An opinionated man
Women are attracted to a man that takes a strong stand in his beliefs and in conversations. The way you dialogue and communicate your ideas (respectfully) attracts a woman. When you strongly disagree or agree with something because you are holding yourself to a standard, you’ll impress your woman. Just remember that you don’t have to be rude to give your opinion.
Trait No4: A patient man
Women are attracted to men who actually try to get to know us. It shows that you are interested in getting things done the right way. When you rush, you give us a red flag. So, even if you’re busy, plan a date instead of rushing to get her to come to your place.
Trait No5: A stylish man
Not everything is about looks, but we still want to be able to introduce you to our friends. We always want you to attract them with your dressing. For that reason, you have to know what you are comfortable with and dress nicely for your woman. That is how you build attraction!
Trait No6: A sweet smelling man
There’s just something about a nice smell that leaves a sweet memory of you. I mean, haven’t you ever wondered why we want to own your shirts, hoodies, and denims? It’s because we like and want your smell. We want the indelible memory of your scent. So, use nice deodorants.
Trait No7: A man with a deep voice
As a bonus point, a deep voice does wonders to women. It’s fine if you don’t have it naturally. But, if you do, it attracts and makes her want to hear from you daily. One thing you can try to do is to practice bringing your voice down by a few octaves. There’s no pressure, though.
That is all for today. I hope you enjoyed our talk and you have been able to pick up a few lessons. Before you leave, though, you should definitely click here to find out what men find attractive in women. While you’re there, don’t forget to read more interesting stories on Virtue Digest and subscribe to our newsletter. Until next time, bye!